What to Write on Funeral Flowers — Messages & Card Wording

Finding the Right Words

Writing a message on a funeral flower card is one of those small but significant tasks that can feel surprisingly difficult. When grief is raw, even simple words can feel inadequate. But a heartfelt message — however brief — offers genuine comfort to the bereaved and becomes a treasured keepsake long after the funeral is over.

At Nat's Funeral Flowers, we include a complimentary card with every tribute we deliver across Cheltenham and Gloucestershire. This guide will help you find the right words for your card.

Messages for a Parent

Losing a parent is one of life's most profound experiences. Here are some messages that work well for a mother or father:

• "With all our love, now and always. Rest peacefully, Mum."
• "Dad, you gave us everything. Forever in our hearts."
• "In loving memory of a wonderful mother. Your love will guide us always."
• "No words can express how much we miss you. With deepest love, your children."
• "To the best dad in the world. Until we meet again."

If you are choosing flowers for mum or flowers for dad, a personal message makes the tribute even more meaningful.

Messages for a Grandparent

Grandparents often hold a special place in our hearts. Consider these messages:

• "To a wonderful Nan. Thank you for the memories. With all our love."
• "Grandad, your stories and laughter will live on forever."
• "In loving memory. You were the heart of our family."
• "With love and gratitude for everything you gave us. Rest peacefully."

Messages for a Spouse or Partner

The loss of a life partner calls for deeply personal words:

• "My darling, my everything. Forever yours."
• "Together in life, together in my heart. I love you always."
• "You were my world. Rest now, my love."
• "Until we meet again. All my love, always."

A heart tribute paired with a loving message is one of the most popular choices for a spouse. Sympathy flowers from friends and colleagues often include a short, sincere card message too.

Messages for a Friend

When a friend passes away, your message should reflect the warmth of your friendship:

• "A true friend who will be deeply missed. Thinking of you."
• "With fond memories and heartfelt sympathy."
• "You brought so much joy to everyone around you. Rest well."
• "In loving memory of a wonderful friend."

Messages from Colleagues or Groups

When sending flowers on behalf of a workplace or group, keep the message respectful and inclusive:

• "With deepest sympathy from all at [company name]."
• "In loving memory. From your friends at [group name]."
• "A much-valued colleague and friend. You will be greatly missed."
• "With sincere condolences from all of us."

General Sympathy Messages

If you are sending flowers to a family and did not know the deceased well, these general messages are appropriate:

• "With heartfelt sympathy at this sad time."
• "Thinking of you and your family with love."
• "With deepest condolences and sincere sympathy."
• "May happy memories bring you comfort."
• "In loving memory. With sympathy."

Tips for Writing Your Message

• Keep it sincere. A few genuine words are better than a lengthy message that does not feel authentic.
• Use the deceased's name. It adds a personal touch: "For David, with love" feels warmer than a generic message.
• Avoid clichés if they do not feel right. "They're in a better place" can sound hollow if it does not reflect your beliefs or theirs.
• Sign your name clearly. The family may receive many tributes — make sure they know who the flowers are from.
• It is okay to be brief. Even "With love, [your name]" is a perfectly appropriate and meaningful message.

What to Avoid

While there are no strict rules, it is generally best to avoid:

• Humour (unless you are absolutely certain the family would welcome it)
• References to the cause of death — see our condolence guide for more on appropriate tone
• Comparing your grief to the family's
• Religious language if you are unsure of the family's beliefs

We Are Here to Help

If you are struggling with your message, our team at Nat's Funeral Flowers is always happy to help. We have helped thousands of families in Cheltenham find the right words, and we can suggest wording that feels right for your situation. Every tribute we create includes a card — simply let us know your message when you place your order.

Call us on 0771 055 0712 or get in touch online.